A Tribute to Jane Loeb

Dear Jane,

 

Mom,

I just thought I would tell you something, seeing as I forgot to mention it to you when it first happened... Well there is this guy named Ross who also lives in the program I live in... We have been dateing for a good two or so months now!! I really like/love him alot, and he feels the same way about me as well!! We have been hanging out and going on dates to places like, Downtown Napa, the movies, a basketball game and other fun stuff as well!! We are really a cute couple everyone says!! Also, Dad and Carolyn have met him as well, and they really like hime alot!! I have also met his parents and brother as well, and they are really great people!! Well I just thought I would let you know this, because it's very importent to me that you know this!! Talk to you later then!

Love, Andi

Dear Jane,

Mom,

Today my Biological Dad Jerry and his wife are comming up to see me, for the second time in my life!! I just want you to know that no one can replace you or Dad for anything in the world!! But, I think it's awesome that Jerry and his wife are even spending time with me at all!! Oh also, Dad, Carolyn, her sisters and I leave for New York to see my Step sister and my step brother and there son in three days!! I can hardly wait to go at all!! I just thought I would tell you this because I wanted to and all!! Well got to go but I will write back at somepoint soon!! I love you and miss you alot as well!!
 

With love from your daughter, Andi

Dear Jane,

Mom,

You know how I used to always love fairys and would always write letters to them? Well I have always wanted to build/make a little house for them... So I went with one of the staff here and got a box and collected all the sticks and leaves to decorate it with... I will make it out of nature and other things as well... I will make all the furniture and other things as well... I have always wanted to make a house for the fairys and have it for a keepsake. I thought you might like to know this, because it would be something you would be happy about hearing!! Well anyways, I have to go but will send another message at somepoint!! Remember I love you and miss you lots!!

Love, Andi

Dear Jane,

 

I turn 21 in two days!!! I just wanted to let you know that!! Also I wanted to let you know that now Dad is a member of this group as well!! I thought you would like that, so I invited him to join this group. Well I hope and know that you are always looking down on Dad and I, and guiding us both through life in the best way possible as well!! I know that you will continue to guid us both in life and keep us all safe!! I miss you and love you so much right now!! Oh also, I have a boyfriend now!! His name is Ross, and he lives at the Moving Forward program I also live at!! He is such a great guy and we both really like/love each other a lot!! Thought you might like to hear that peice of great news as well!! I will write back in a few days when I come up with more good news!! Love you and miss you.

Love your daughter, Andi

I remember when she already had the Cancer and it was around Christmas time. My mom was taking Chemo therapy so it made her loose all her hair. That of course did not stop her from feeling embarest at all. So she decided to show up to the family Christmas party in my Raggdy Ann bright red wig. She showed up and everyone was very pleased to see her making light of the situation instead of putting herself down about the loss of hair. She was actually the highlight of the night instead.

Dear Mom,

I turn 21 really soon. I really wish that you where here to see my big day! I also wish that you where here to see me in a wonderfull place now. I am in a program called Moving Forward Torwards Independence, and here I am learning to become much more Independent and also adult like as well. I do all sorts of activities and classes as well as trying to find a job. You would be very proud of me right now! And I know that you are looking down on me and smiling and feeling very proud of me. Thanks for everything that you ever did for me and for Dad as well. I will always love you, and miss you and can't wait till we meet again someday in the after life. Please keep watching over me and shinning brightly and help me to make the right choices in life as well. Thanks for everything.

Love, Your Daughter, Andi